Sexual companion, practice in the pre-colonial Nsukka - Ekene Ugwuanyi

Ọ̀YỊ̀ Ọ́HỤ́ PRACTICE IN THE PRE-COLONIAL NSUKKA 

By Ekene Ugwuanyi Every one of these women yelling 'My better half can't undermine me! On the off chance that my significant other undermine me, I will likewise cheat back!" let me give you a set of experiences that may stun you particularly in case you're from Nsukka. 

In the Pre-frontier Nsukka (there may be special cases for certain networks at any rate), there's what was called 'Ọ̀yị̀ Ọ́hụ́'. Ọyị̀ signifies 'companion', ọhụ́ signifies 'butt cheek' yet in the logical use it alludes to 'sex'. Ọ̀yị̀ Ọ́hụ́ accordingly, signifies 'sexual companion.' 

At the point when a lady brought forth another kid, clearly her better half would not, at this point be gathering her to perfect the intimate association for the interim as a result of her condition. What was done was that another woman was organized who might come to' fare thee well' of the spouse. This woman to be orchestrated was alluded to as 'Ọ̀yị̀ Ọ́hụ́. 

It was the obligation of the spouse to prepare invite nourishment for this Ọ̀yị̀ Ọ́hụ́ and engage her so well so she would be glad to' take care of' the husband. The spouse would ensure that during the time of her stay in the house that she ought to be all around engaged so she would not get irritated. 

In the Pre-pioneer Nsukka, it was the obligation of the man to accommodate the family and furthermore to deal with the family including his significant other. He has no reason to flop in this in any case, his frenzy would be treated by his family. Then again, it was viewed as the obligation of the spouse to fulfill her significant other explicitly. In a circumstance where she's not ready to get together with this duty in light of certain reasons like labor, at that point she needed to organize or help out her better half in orchestrating Ọ̀yị̀ Ọ́hụ́ (a female sexual companion) to deal with her significant other's sexual need. 

A widow (obunonwonye) was additionally permitted to pick her Ọ̀yị̀ Ọ́hụ́ from among the ones who may look for her kinship which periodically was focused on sexual delight. For this situation, in the event that she had the option to picked well, she'll increase a ton from the man as it's normal that the man take great consideration of her. This was done mystery in any case. 

In the Pre-provincial Nsukka, it was not expected of a lady to screen her better half's developments with different females, obviously, he could wed the same number of spouses as he needed. What was anticipated from her better half was to take acceptable consideration of his family and to ensure that they, including his significant other, needed nothing concerning the fundamental requirements of life. 

I just considered it important to instruct you on this Ọ̀yị̀ Ọ́hụ́ marvel in the Pre-provincial Nsukka. It might really be hard to end side chick.